Your relationship isn’t broken

Take a breath with me Reader… this one matters.

A couple of weeks ago, I filled out an online relationship survey from one of the most trusted voices in the “relationship field” and discovered… my relationship is “broken”!

What?!!!

Then I dug a bit more and learned that all of the possible results gave the same message:
​"Your relationship is broken… and I have the solution."

I don’t see relationships this way. Most of the time, nothing’s “wrong”… it’s just time to reset… to reset stories, patterns, boundaries, agreements.

A reset (whether you’re currently in a relationship or not) helps you re-center, let your nervous system catch up with your life, and remember the relationship you actually want to be in… and the person you actually want to be inside it.

A quick story from May​
A couple I’ll call “A & R” came to me tired of the same friction: small bids for connection getting missed, boundaries getting fuzzy, little ruptures piling up. Nothing explosive… just a slow drift. We practiced three simple things you’ll learn in the 5-Day Relationship Reset: breath before words, boundaries as bridges, and quick repair.

The next week they told me, “Dinner felt light again… we laughed… and when we hit a snag, it didn’t spiral.” That makes sense… because a reset isn’t about fixing each other. It’s about returning to presence and choice.

Why the 5-Day Relationship Reset​
Because you don’t need more drama or self-analysis… you need more depth. Over five days, we’ll stack small, doable practices that change your baseline. Come solo or with your partner… both paths work beautifully.

Day 1: Presence… slow the system so you can hear yourself again.
Day 2: Boundaries as Bridges… stay in integrity so you can stay close.
Day 3: Truth & Tenders… say the real thing… with care.
Day 4: Repair… when it gets messy, come back stronger.
Day 5: Devotion… turn good intentions into daily rhythm.

When: September 14–18
​Where: Live on Zoom, with a private Facebook group for replays, prompts, & Q&A (go at your own pace and stay supported)
​Cost: No cost to join
​Register: For more information and to register, go here:

If you’ve been carrying a little heaviness… or you keep having the same conversation on loop… this reset is for you.

If you’re good but want to be great… it’s for you too.

Depth is a practice, not a personality trait.

Hit reply if you have a question about whether it’s a fit. I read every note.

I get you… I’ve got you… Let’s go deeper.

Blessings to you,
Ted

P.S. Know someone who could use a gentle reset? Forward this to them. And if you’re ready now… for more information and to register, go here:

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Looking for an in-person experience with your partner?

It's a bit edgier than the 5-Day Relationship Reset. And...it might be just what you need to step forward in your relationship (whether you've been together for weeks or decades).

Applications close on January 18.

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